How to keep your family united and happy

familyHere are few tips to keep our family  happy and as a strong  and united unit———
Love, spirit of mutual sacrifice,tolerance are the building  blocks for making a lovely and beautiful family.
Greet every member of your family with  a smile, talk with them having smile on your face
FIVE  Mantra/ tips  for the prosperity,development and up lifting of the family——
1. Every member should make himself/herself self independent and should work with his/her full capicity and ability.
2.Every one should  contribute towards the well fare of the family in their best possible way,None should become lazy but should become hard working  and sincere.
3.  Every one should have attitude to co operate and help to each other.
  4.  Every one should take care of each other and provide help to them in evey walk of the life.
5.  Develop the attitude of tolerance, politeness,mutual sacrifice towards one another. Do your best to keep the unity  among the different family members even at the cost of pretty self interest. Act wisely and sincerely with full devotion for the well being of your family.
It is the duty of the elders to develop the feeling of mutual love between the members and listen their problems care fully and guide them in best befitting manner, they should not use the stick of discipline of and on  for carrying out your instructions, On the contrary talk to them softly and lovely and share your experiences with them .Guide  them, advice them in correct and proper way
Communicate and discuss your problem with others members and seek their advice and guidelines
Never stop communication.Fix a place and time , when you meet all members and exchange the happiness, sorrow and all, problems mutually in cordial atmosphere..
. Be cool., Do not loose your temper.always listen other’s view and respect their views
Never do back biting, Have courage to put your views firmly but politely.
Defend your family members as and when need arises.Well fare and well being of your  family should be your top priority.
Avoid the habit of suspicion, as there is no medicine to cure it. Further attitude of suspicion is the most dangerous..   and lead us to disaster. Avoid to have confusion too. Remove your confusion by mutual discussions.
Make sure that each family member become true human being i.e true INSAN
Keep each member busy in discharging their duties and in completion of their assign work, This will keep them busy and will also make them tension free, happy and comfortable
Make your family as an ideal family and become worthy member of it..
Remember that loneliness is a major health risk for elderly and it can increase of even premature death by 14%. Loneliness has twice the impact of on early death. Hence ,  Be remain in the company of your elder and old member take every care of them  so that they will not develop the feeling of loneliness.
Motivate your family members, make them to remain positive.
Encourage every one to become a man of strong character
Be careful about the health of each and every member.
Be a proud member of united family.
-Jugal Kishor Garg
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