Love has many forms, feelings, and various attitudes, that ranges from interpersonalaffection(“I love my mother-father, sister, nephew, uncle”) to pleasure (“I loved that cuisine, thali, curry etc.”). It can relate to anemotionof an attractionand personalattachment.It can also be a virtue representing humankindness,compassion, and also benevolence, for the good of another”. It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other human beings, one’s own self and also animals and plants
How to Love:
Love continuously and constantly to make yourself and those you love, become better human beings. A good, loving relationship is one where you constantly challenge each other to become better people. Help others realise and achieve their dreams and goals, because you believe, they deserve their manisfaction. Thus we will be better people because of the relationships that we develop and this is the better way to do it.
Develop Zero Jealousy attitudes:
This is one of the healthiest things to have in a relationship, as jealousy can break down trust and respect. Jealousy is a tough thing to break, but one can do it.
View issues from all sides:
We hate to be wrong. Everyone does. But the thing about everyone thinking they’re right is that someone HAS to be wrong. If we disagree on an issue, we’re bound to be wrong on at least part of the issue. You’ll have much stronger relationships if you learn to talk things out with the other person, see their point of view, and find somewhere in the middle where you can meet and agree.
Make Lasting Relationships
Commitment:
If you’re in love, prove it, by putting total effort s into the relationship and striving whole heartedly to make it work. Communicate regularly with your partner about your goals for the mutual relationship. But you need to make sure that your partner is also equally committed to the same level of love that you are bestowing towards him/her.
Learn from the Love relationship- as it grows—blossoms:
As love grows in the companionship there will be shades of sunshine and clouds, you will have your joyous soulful, and sometimes, sad days also, when you are in the best of moods or worst of the moods with one another. Yes, both good and bad feelings will happen in relationships. Sometimes you are prone to say some unpleasant or wrong things and at sometimes they can hurt your feelings. These things happen, the important thing is to learn from the wrongs committed and make amends and move ahead with a positive and plus attitude. If you’re in the wrong, apologize and own up to your mistake and thus you will become lovelier.
Good relationships evaporate the foul air (grievances) and bring fragrance in the atmosphere to give love a new meaning to each other.
How to Avoid Common Relationship Problems
Never, ever manipulate someone
Don’t expect perfection:
Perfection is a continuous process, both in oneself and in our companion; it should be always strived for, and demanded of the other self also. But there is no fool stop to this process, so neither should we boast of perfection in our self nor demand it in our companion. Such an unquestioning attitude will always foster Love among one another don’t expect perfection in the person you love or in yourself. This sets incredibly unrealistic expectations. Neither of you will be able to live up to these standards
Stagnation should be avoided:
As stilled water stagnates and spreads diseases like wise routine life style and regular activities are bound to bring boredom and displeasure in a love one another relationship so we should always strived for novel activities and change in routine life style and environment to make life interesting and enjoy full and thus make love yet more loveable.
Focus should have balance:
In a relationships we tend to focused on very little insignificant things, that drive us crazy, rather than seeing the bigger picture, which is rather strange but if we could , keep our focus on the things that actually matter, and constantly analyze them, it would result in developing a happier relationship.
Loving Your Friends and Family
Be a good friend:
A friend in need is a friend in deed, Love is not just physical i.e not. Just kissing and hugging: but also being present when someone is in sorrow or sufferings or even when he/she is in the celebration mood of helping in organising social functions like birth day Party, Marriage Annivarsry etc .Give a patient hearing to your friend’s problems and be present in his hour of need.
Love people as they are:
All are made of different fibre and have varying likes and dislikes. When we love someone we should accept him/her in totality i.e. with his faults and virtues. We should not have the attitude of moral policemen. No one likes to hear that his /her doings are not right. If you feel that you can better your friend, try to mould him in your way without his conscious knowledge
True beauty lies in the Eyes of the Beholder:
When you love someone, you have to love him/her as they are and not by their fair skin, lustrous hair, pink cheeks or well rounded body but by their unique and wonderful appearance as and how it is — one needs to find the inner beauty in the person we love and this will make the person happy and more loveable towards you
Problems need to be mutually sorted out:
In any relationship problems are bound to arise but the way out is to talk it out and pacify and convince each other to remove unnecessary misunderstandings and hard feelings. The way out of any hurt feelings is to talk it out and make amends for the unpleasantness created knowingly or unknowingly. Remember the age old advice of our Elders—-A stitch in time saves nine. Do not monopolise the dialogue, give room to the other person to put forth his/ her point of view and accept it even if it is contrary to your opinion, provided that is the rationally correct view point.
Bestow Love towards Yourself:
Love yourself:
Love is a splendid thing in Life, by Love we spread happiness amongst our friends and well wishers so why deny our self these splendid feelings. We, in today’s times have to beat our own Drums to make the world know our true worth. It has been very rightly opined that —— When the going gets tough, The Tough get going. Before loving anyone else, you have to love yourself. This will help you to develop your self confidence and security.
Concept of Love—- A spiritual view point———
Love is the simplest, purest and smoothest way to ENLIGHTENMENT and SALAVATION. Those who live but do not love are as good as dead even though they appear to be alive——-those living thus are the dead on a_____holiday.
Nirvan or everlasting Enlightenment and true spiritual growth can be achieved only through persistent expression of Real Love____ BHAKATI.
The pass word to GOD‘s abode is Love, God is Love, and resides in God’s Own Domain.
Where there is God, there is Love and where there is love there is GOD.
Conclusion :
I love you means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you’re down, not just when you’re fun to be with. “I love you” means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly.
When two person loves each other and they are planning to spend their lives together they should be best friends. When these two person trusts each other they can have the best relationship. If you want to have strong relationship don’t ever lie to your partners___for____ BEAUTY is TRUTH and TRUTH is BEAUTY and that is all YE know on Earth and all YE need to KNOW ( KEATS).
Inspirational LOVE Quotes_____As the Lovers said____
Everyone says that loves hurts, but that’s not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts.
Love is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again.
When two people are meant for each other, no time is too long, no distance is too far, no one can ever tear them apart.
We come tolovenot by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly
Love is a language spoken by everyone but understood only by the heart.
In true love, there is no mountain too high to climb. No river too wide to cross. And most of all in true love there is no ends.
Meeting you was fate, becoming yourfriendwas a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.
What is love? In math: an equation; in history: a war; in chemistry: a reaction; in art: a heart; in me: YOU.
Love is the most beautiful thing to have, hardest thing to earn and most painful thing to lose.
The Thought Process ———-Dr. J. K.Garg And Dilip Gupta