KEY TO HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

It is not necessary  that  whatever we think / thought  is   correct or perfect, Because every person has  own thinking or perception and their view may be correct, as per their thinking.. Take example of our daily life viz  one likes to wear clothes of only one particular color, say  white /blue, these person may give thousands of reason or facts in favor of their choice.Some other may say that their color e.g purple/ pink is better  i.e it is more charming, soothing to eyes or what not ?  Third person say  that  he neither like white,blue nor purple ,pink but like green or so. It means every individual have their own logic for their choice. Hence, fair and reasonable conclusion is that thinking or perception may be correct and it should not be made a point of argument, Rather, we should respect the views of all individuals and make it very clear that we are no body to impose our thinking/ logic/ arguments  on them. THUS your thinking / thought are good and legitimate for you  and other”s point of view is correct for them. THE BEST WAY FOR US IS TO DEVELOP THE MUTUAL RESPECT FOR ONE ANOTHER’S POINT OF VIEW. On the contrary ,if we do not respect  views of others then it will lead of creating misunderstanding/mistrust and will make us stress full and unhappy.

REMEMBER , IF YOU WILL TRY TO SUPER IMPOSE YOUR VIEW OR LIFE STYLE ON OTHERS,THEN IT WILL CERTAINLY SPOIL YOUR RELATION AND YOU WILL INVITE UNHAPPINESS FOR YOUR SELF.

It is wrong to expect from your child that he or she should be like you or should be a carbon copy of your thinking. and should act or behave as you act or behave.Actually you, your daughter, son, are different SOUL and they are born with their own SANSKAR or KARMIC KARMA. Each SOUL/AATAMA is not born with a clean slate but they do have the preconditioning of their  various past life ,Thus each and every soul possess different SANSKAR and accordingly possess different thoughts, Therefor  their act, attitude in the life will not be identical but will be different. REMEMBER THAT OUR LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT.NO TWO PERSON/MAN OR WOMEN ARE SAME, THEY HAVE THEIR OWN PERSONALITY AND THINKING. If we want to under stand one another then we have to believe that we all are different and should be allowed to live in our own way.Every person may be right or correct, Our this understanding will make our mutual relationship/friend ship strong,respectful ,happy and enjoyable

NEVER COMPARE TWO PERSON, NEVER COMPARE YOUR CHILD, or  WITH THEIR FRIEND or WITH OTHER’S CHILD.,

Before  giving your reaction/ reply,Listen ,other” point of view  with patience and give due respect  to their view too

Never send NEGATIVE ENERGY or NEGATIVE FEELING  to your own family member by believing  that they are wrong and they are doing wrong things.(As you know that as per NEWTON”s law every action has an equal and opposite reaction). By doing so, you too will also get NEGATIVE ENERGY or NEGATIVE FEELING FROM THEM. This will keep you away from the happiness.

In order to have good relationship, Send good vibrations of LOVE and,AFFECTION, to others

Never be judgmental to others.Make a self  promise that you will never say to other that they are wrong and are doing wrong thing. As a parent your thinking may be correct but do not ignore the fact that the act/ feeling  of your child may also be right or correct

FOR A BETTER AND HAPPY LIFE, LEARN TO ACCEPT THE THINKING or LIFE STYLE OF OTHER TOO..and ACCEPT THEM AS THEY ARE.

If ,we make a habit of rejecting    other”s view or thought, then it is possible that he will stop talking to you or stop sharing his point of view with you.Felling of rejection will  induce the feeling of disrespect

Every one want that he or she should be accepted in his family as he is.Listen the point of view of your family member carefully and never become critical towards them. Every parent should become a councilor for their child ,(Remember that a councilor never become critical towards his patient, in turn patient follow his advice faithfully), Hence,In family too, we should become a councilor for each other.

Never consider that the person on the other side is wrong.But accept the fact that he too may be right in his perception.WE SHOULD AGREE TO BE DISAGREE, BUT WE SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL TO EACH OTHER

Remember that comparison and criticism  effect the energy adversely and decrease the energy or power of the soul..

Negative thinking or negative feeling are the biggest hurdle in making or developing the healthy relationship

 Relationship depends on what we think for each other.relationship also depends on our inner feelings for one another.For better relationship, we have to replace negative feeling by positive feeling for others.Who are we to be judgmental?If we want to convert the feeling of other towards us then ,first of all we have to convert our self and send the vibrations of positive feeling to others.

Do not catch hold unfortunate events or ill feeling of the past,Forget these thing.,By doing so , You will invite happiness and pleasure in your life.

Change your thinking, make it positive and constructive and this will impart love in you and make you healthy too

FORGIVE EVERY ONE,ACCEPT EVERY ONE AS THEY ARE. LOVE EVERY ONE UNCONDITIONALLY.

PAST IS PAST,FORGET IT

FORGIVE OUR SELF,ACCEPT OUR SELF AS WE ARE. LOVE OUR SELF UNCONDITIONALLY

When we forgive, then every unfortunate event/situation become insignificant and small.

If do not nourish our bad habit like  speaking the lies, it will not grow and die ,just like a small plant dies, if it is not watered.

You are inviting the troubles or sorrow for you, if you expect any thing from the others.

One should never leave his or her good qualities.

If ,we want to make our self and our life happy,then we should never copy any one, but should develop our own personality

We should initiate the link of communication with others and this will be good for our progress and will eliminate our ego and make us strong and positive.

Recharge your soul every day by doing meditation for at least half an hour We have to feed our soul with wisdom and GYAN by the meditation.If we care for our soul ,then our body will automatically become healthy and strong.

 If you never think that the other person is wrong and respect their views too, then your mutual relation will  become natural and respectful.